Friday, October 29, 2010

IF I COULD GO BACK IN LIFE....






We keep thinking about our past, basically regretting over the mistakes which we have done, that has affected our present and have certainly made us re think about our future decisions.Many a times we take decision in a hasty manner to fulfill our short term dreams rather than looking out for long term achievements. This is a main problem with the people today, they take short cuts without thinking how much it will affect them in the long run.
Having covered 19 years of my life I sometimes re-think about those short-short moments where I went careless and had to pay heavily for that. It is very common with the teenagers. I sometimes think If god had given us a chance where in we could go back in our life and redo the things where we went wrong out of sheer excitement of doing something new or to outclass others and at the end we failed because we lacked the calmness with whose help others walked by in the road for success and we ended up struggling

Fallen back so much I don’t know where my companions went away with the glory. They got all the success, recognition for which, I craved for. Depressed so much, I just wished if god could show his mercy on me and could give me a single chance to go back in life to correct my mistakes and to get a base from where I could start afresh and don’t repeat the mistakes. But life is merciless it doesn’t give a new chance to any one it’s a trap which we create for our self and later on we get so much entangled in it that we cant exit from there and we end up paying hugely for the small mistakes
We should never do anything hastily because there are many lives that are connected with us, who expect a lot from us, and even if we can’t give them everything we should try giving them at least 50% of what they expect, as the rest will come with the recognition and confidence which we gained by doing half of the work.done. We cannot escape what we are doing we have to bear the result in the future all alone.

I’ m also one out of many who are facing the wrath of life today and I can’ t escape it no matter how much I try. I have entangled my self and there is no exit left for me. I too think that I could get the chance of reversing the time of my life waiting for a single chance to re live those moments again which were important for me and I just let them slip out of my hands, to correct those mistakes and tell my friends that I’ m not a looser and can’ t stand head to head with you I know once I was weak because I had lost the
directions of my life but now I’ m back ready to give you a tough fight and prove every one that I’ m not a looser who can’ t face the world I know that earlier I was raw but now I’ m fully developed and ready to stand on my own feet

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

LIFE

From the time we are born till we die we just rotate our self in these four alphabets "LIFE". Some make it big and others worship them, while others just struggle while trying.

Some one has rightly said:
LIFE is a stage and we all are the actors, GOD is the judge of the roles that we play. He honors some for their good deeds while he makes others strive.

here is a story of a person just like and and me, story of my friend Aadil

My school friend Aadil, the best part of my school life. We did everything together, like we ate together, played together and we enjoyed together. But he was a more hard working than me. A sweet and stupid fellow in nature, he was simple to the level best extent, and believed in what others said to him. Many times his simplicity worked out against him. LIFE started playing games when he least expected them. When he was happy with the way the things were on, he was sad, depressed by the god's wrong judgments. Others started taking use of his simplicity, & started bullying him.

Nothing deterred him from his aim, he was still calm and composed as always. He just wanted that others should be happy. He used to observe his other friends, understand their mind and tried to understand them. While he used to observe others he also used his to indulge his brain in thinking about his own troubles, how to tackle them. It was never his fault but everything ended knocking him down. More he tried, more he got mixed up.

He just needed some time to dispatch himself from his past and start afresh. He started acting positively & just wanted to recover and enjoy life. Now he has succeeded to change the situation and is living happily.

MORAL:

No matter how much your life gets on you, be calm don't fear any thing, you just need some time to get on with it


NO ONE IS PERFECT IN LIFE BUT IF U TRY YOU CAN BE CLOSE TO PERFECTION

THIS IS WHAT LIFE IS

SPECIAL WE




"We are born on this earth to become a special person, to struggle, to survive, to rise, to shine and to become what we dreamt of and to make our self other people's dream"

Every one has a role model in their life and we dream of becoming more successful than them. As we grow and struggle to survive in this world our need and aspirations change and to achieve them we become more and more selfish. But in this race of going to the top and to show how special we are, we forget that GOD has sent his special children in this world to tell us the real beauty of life. They tell us that the way to live happily is to live a simple life. They know the real beauty of this life and they make it more beautiful. GOD has given us everything but yet we are dissatisfied with whatever we have, on the contrary, those specially able people who have some of the important things missing from their life, seem more happy and satisfied with every thing they get. Every individual faces a number of problems in their life and many a times they find it very difficult to solve it. Actual thing is that we don't know the guru mantra of living our life i.e. to smile, and surely all our worries will disappear.

Now coming to those people who inspired me to write this article. It was one of those specially able family whom i met in the bus on my way back to home from a training session. They came across as a happy go lucky family because they had adopted the guru mantra of life "to smile and live" and it seemed that they have won their battle against life. They transformed me and gave me a reason to live and look at life from a different perspective. After seeing them, i forgot all my worries and a question popped up in my mind that if they can be happy with whatever they have, then y cant i enjoy my life????

We all should learn a lesson from them. We should be satisfied with whatever we get in life. We can't get everything in life but if we are worth something then we will surely get that. We should try to learn from our mistakes. If something disturbs us, or when we face a problem, we should not get disheartened rather we should gather all our strength and face them with full confidence. And just think once about those who are not as blessed as we are but yet they make it big in this world. We should learn to live from them.

Thanks to them they are the most special people on this earth. Hope they inspire many more youths and help all of us to know the importance and actual beauty of our lives.